My dad taught me at a young age that first impressions are lasting impressions.
“When you meet someone, you give a firm handshake and look them in the eyes,” he said. Then he practiced with me. Over and over.
Have you ever encountered that person who gives you a weak handshake and turns the other way when you say hello? That’s a bad first impression — especially if that person is the greeter at your church.
When you engage someone, be attentive. The handshake should be firm and meaningful. It should not, however, be intimidating. It should say: “Welcome. We’re glad you’re here.”
At our church, which meets in an elementary school cafeteria, we have a minimum of two greeters — one stationed just as people step from the parking lot to the sidewalk that leads to the cafeteria, another at the cafeteria door. Both are smiling and outgoing. Both are quick with a handshake.
For visitors, this is often their first interaction — their first impression — with people at our church. It’s a small gesture but it’s important.
The message is this: You are welcome here. We’re glad you came.
Have you ever thought of a handshake as a church marketing tool?